WARRIOR SPIRIT IN SPORTS

For practical purposes, I define the Warrior Spirit ( Wi Shi in Chinese)as a "heart mindset" whereby you sacrifice for others, push past your comfort zone ( get comfortable with being uncomfortable),have no regrets and work hard even when others are not looking. You accept responsibility, remain accountable and strive to "win the day" doing the best you can to be the best you can be. You accept opponents as partners and understand when soft is strong, when less is more which is thinking outside the box. As a Warrior, you are willing to suffer,sacrifice and fail if that's what it takes to be your best.

There is no prerequisite of age, size or shape to be a Warrior. The only requirement is to be willing to take on vigorous, rigorous spiritual training that awakens you to higher levels you never thought possible. This begins with practicing meditation which creates a positive effect on your body,mind and spirit. It is a process of quieting the mind, clearing it and creating greater awareness and calm which creates noticeable, palpable inner change for extraordinary performance. From this calm place within, you can introduce amazing images that enable you to feel yourself performing as you would like. I have a way to help you establish such a practice in my book, The Way of the Champion. You can google "meditation" and see what pops up...it has become a household word these days. I wouldn't leave home without it.

Begin to use meditation as a more spiritual path to motivation, inspiration and wisdom in your sport AND all of life. Feel more alive, vibrant,mindful and happier in your personal arena of choice.
If you search my Blog page on my website, you will find several other Blogs that will reinforce this piece and take you even further along the Warrior path.

THE ALCHEMY OF SPORTS

Alchemy,as I understand it, is the unification of diverse metals to promote change with the result being a metal much more precious than any one individual metal that is in the collective batch. In fact, unifying all creates something even greater than the sum of its parts.

Sports are no different when we do it correctly. With athletics, we all have the opportunity to unite as a diverse population and promote massive change with the result being a unified, connected, compassionate,cooperative, selfless, giving, joyful, culture doing what we love for a cause that is something bigger than anyone involved. The outcome is a culture that finds its common heart, beating together and performing at levels comparable to our capabilities. This is an alchemy of blending over time, the diverse cultures of the athletes to form ONE unified culture with one heart, one soul, one purpose, one goal.

So, knowing this, we can now think about sports in a different way. Instead of fighting and battling each other in a war, we can use sport as a vehicle to achieve our very best. We can all come together and compete in the true sense of the word. The Latin root for competition is "compatiere" meaning "to seek together", our full human capacity. Our opponents are our partners on the journey of everlasting and never ending improvement and joy. We embrace each other and offer up our very best performance so that we achieve our mission of full capacity living.

Think about this... great performance is only possible in a culture where we UNITE  with all our diversity, where we respect and honor each other and connect in an emotionally and spiritually safe environment where greatness  and gratitude proliferate. Without this, there is no great performance.

What I describe here is the culture of the G.S.Warriors under the leadership of Steve Kerr and his remarkable staff. The antithesis of such we are witnessing in today's chaotic, turbulent, confusing and despairing country. I believe this administration needs to take a lesson from the playbook of the Warriors if we , as a country, are to return to a world leadership role, to unite, to accept differences and be a culture of world champions. Sport, I have learned, is a huge opportunity to create sane cultures and help to restore the sanity of our Divided States of America.

We can begin this process by LISTENING to the athletes protesting against social injustice and inequality. All they want is what the pledge of allegiance is saying: "liberty and justice for all".
There are several ALCHEMISTS in the NBA... Witness Steve Kerr, Gregg Popovich, Brad Stevens,
coaches who are most successful. What I am saying is WHERE IS THE ALCHEMIST IN OUR WH?

THIS IS THE FIRST OF WHAT COULD BE MANY POLITICAL STATEMENTS. My work in sports is to build sane, successful cultures that function at high levels on and off the field. These are worlds I love to be part of and I am sad about how these core values are being destroyed by our administration.  I want sports to become the teacher, mentor and example of what we crave...sports as a microcosmic classroom for showing us the way back to what the USA is all about.

I love sports and I love the country I grew up with. Let's recapture our romance with decency. Put into one cauldron, trust, respect, courage, integrity, compassion, joy, selflessness, fearlessness, belief, love and see what results happen.

SPIRITUAL VITAMINS IN SPORTS

Wouldn't it be satisfying to experience a soulful connection and relationship with something greater than ourselves? You can begin to transform your relationship with sports by shifting from the exterior battlefields of time, score, opponent, points scored, outcomes and results TO an interior battlefield against fear, failure and self doubt. Such inner battles are won with what I call "weapons of the Heart" such as courage, fearlessness, tenaciousness, perseverance, sacrifice, integrity and more.

As in all of life, the physical activity becomes the conduit for profound transformation, spiritual growth and positive change. I invite you to compete with heart by using such core values I call "spiritual vitamins" for the athletic soul. While it's important to be physically strong, it is absolutely essential to be spiritually solid. The above spiritual values can be taught and therefore learned. I teach these core values to my teams so that they can be not just physically and mentally talented but spiritually talented as well. You can actually learn how to be courageous and how to persevere. This is what I do in my Way of Champions work. Read about this in my website. Over the past 27 years, 109 of the teams I have been part of have won championships at the conference and national levels in college and professional ranks. There must be something to the "spirituality of sport".

All of this in the name of TAO... a way or path...to help all athletes on the journey from ordinary to extraordinary as you train,compete and live in alignment with your heart. This is the true essence of what I call Spirit of the Dancing Warrior, the TAO OF SPIRITUAL TRAINING TOWARDS FULL CAPACITY LIVING AND PERFORMING.

HAVING MATURE HOPE

In sports as in life, we are always looking for hope...I hope I play, I hope we win, I hope I make the team, I hope I stay healthy, I hope I get the job, I hope (s)he likes me. Notice how all these items focus on outcomes and results. Truth be known, we can not control outcomes and results and when we try, we become tight ,tense, tentative and stressed. These feeling response actually hinder the possibility of desirable results as we lose confidence and become prone to mistakes ,errors, and setbacks.

So, how can we hope that all of our hard work pays off? Today I was reading something that shed light on the concept of HOPE and it really has helped me already. It said to give up the hope of things turning out in a certain way...that is the hope of expectation. Instead, have hope in the possibility or potential of something good happening, something that is a good unknown whatever it may be. DO the work then sit back believing that the best will happen even if it's not what you want BUT what you need and trust that. My hope is in the "potential of goodness happening" NOT in goodness happening. The operative word here is "POTENTIAL". This is what is called MATURE HOPE.

There is the potential that you may like this post. I hope that's a possibility and potentially true. SO, my hope is real and feels easy to have.  Hope you have a good life.

THE UNIFYING FACTOR IN SPORTS

There is a strong sense of divisiveness hovering over our country. We seem to be more separate than united. Maybe we are the Divided States of America. Trumpism has permeated our nervous systems to the extent that we can no longer know what is convenient and what is constitutional. The new norm is unacceptance, lying and a general overall lack of human integrity and decency.

But there is one fact of society that can bring us all together and back to our moral compass if we use it properly and that is the world of athletics. SPorts connects athletes of all faiths, religions and philosophies: Christians, Muslims,Hindus, Jews, Buddhists, Taoists, Agnostics, Atheists and more. Once we get on the playing field, all differences are neutralized. It becomes a special sacred "church" that helps us to gain greater understanding of the role of sports in the bigger game of life,

I have worked with thousands of athletes, coaches, teams over a 40 year career who share the core values we all crave in daily life. Sports gives us the opportunity to experience "godlike" qualities like courage, compassion, fearlessness, perseverance, trust, respect, integrity, sacrifice and love to name a few. All of my clients seek to nourish their souls through physical activity.

This connection to the spirit through athletics is not a new concept... many ancient books such as the Torah, Koran, Bible, teach that the care of the body is indeed the care of the soul. I find that there is a universal craving for this intimate relationship that transports us beyond scores, laps, miles, points, wins, championships. Legions seem to be in search of a richer, practical spiritual experience, perhaps a closer relationship with each other, with ourselves, with a higher power. in all arenas of life.

During these precarious times of uncertainty, sports is there for us to observe, participate in and talk about in order to experience a more meaningful, soulful connection with something bigger and greater than ourselves. With weapons of the heart...courage, kindness, love, sharing, caring, giving, compassion... we can begin to combat the craziness of this presidency by practicing these sacred values in sports which can drive "winning" each day of your life. This is the true essence of what I call the SPIRIT OF THE DANCING WARRIOR, using athletics as a spiritual journey to compete against the "spiritual void" in the White House and be victorious against these harsh forces.

WIN THE DAY

One of my favorite requests I make to my teams who are overly concerned with beating their opponent is: "Simply WIN THE DAY". You win the day by BEING a champion in all that you do on and off the court,field,arena... being as tough as you can be, work hard, be tenacious, fearless, courageous and NEVER, ever give up.

I tell them prior to a game that "you never win the tough games with physical strength...you win tough games with SPIRITUAL strength such as courage, perseverance, resilience, sacrifice, love, connection, respect, trust, integrity.

Then I tell them to go from "let's work together to beat our opponent" to " Let's work together to compete like crazy with our hair on fire doing the stuff we love to do together".

I call this "soul food", the spiritual supplements that feed the athletic spirit. This is a huge part of the culture I help teams to build, one where we compete with heart and coach with heart so that we all go the distance, stay loyal and remain mentally tough. Mental toughness is a natural reflection of training the heart to develop the essential core values that drive a competitive environment. I teach this to athletes and coaches. It is learned...not something you are given at birth. AND...it's FUN.

WHY I INCLUDE EASTERN THOUGHT

For many years as a practicing sports psychologist, I relied heavily on the psychology of performance but I felt something was missing. It wasn't enough. With the birth of my best seller in over 10 languages, THINKING BODY,DANCING MIND in 1992 ( my 3rd book), my shift in my approach to sports performance became apparent. I now see my work as 15% psychology and 85% philosophy and spirituality. You see, sports psychologists define competitive learning as something you do to understand and master the external world of sports. I see competitive learning as something you do to understand and master your inner world, cultivating virtues of the heart such as courage, perseverance, compassion, integrity, sacrifice, respect, trust, fearlessness, tenacity and persistence to name a few. Competition in this way is NOT about beating your opponent. It's about using your opponent as a worthy vehicle to help you compete like crazy with your hair on fire doing what you love to do. This approach is more in line with the TAO, with Buddhist thought and Native American tadition where you blend with opposing energies, use them to your advantage and understand that all events are precious opportunities to learn about yourself for the bigger game of life. It's a way to think outside the box and embrace our failures, setbacks and losses as extraordinary ways to learn and forge ahead.  This is the WAY OF THE CHAMPION, the spirituality of sports.

LOVE IS A CAPACITY

I believe that coaching is about fighting for the hearts of your athletes. The way to do this is to have a lot of love in your heart, to be kind, respectful, genuine, authentic, vulnerable, honest and humble. LOVE, remember is not a commodity...it's a CAPACITY...the capacity to CONNECT and CARE for others as you assume the role of servant... you are here to serve them. That's what all Warrior coaches do. THEN, with all the above, athletes will "go the distance" for you, will be loyal, will respect you and be mentally tougher because of this. Simple but powerful.
I'll try to be more consistent in my blogging... Much love and chi, your way. JPL

EFFECTIVENESS IN COACHING

Quote of the Day:  This one is by Maya Angelou and relevant for effective coaching:

" People will forget what you say
     People will forget what you do
  BUT ...  people will never forget how you made them feel.